27 replies to this topic

[silkyuk9]

Hi everyone, not had the best of New Years, my dad was taken ill with a bad chest infection. He was put on a ventilator and was unconcious. after 5 days of pumpimg him with antibiotics his kidney's started to fail and he was also diagnosed with influenas A.

i talked it over with my mum and sister and decided it was best to let my dad go in peace and whilst he wasn't suffering.

so on 1st jan 09 my dad passed away.

still in a little shock but starting to get there with the funeral arrangements and sorting my mums finances out.

its been a shock to the system buty starting to get back to normal.

[chopper]

i am so sorry for your loss mate

[cashbox1]

silky you have my deepest sympathy mate - lost my dad coming up 20 years ago so i have some idea how you might be feeling.all i can say is time is a healer and do your best to carry on.sorry if it sounds a bit corny buddy,but its true.you have a load of folk who know you on here who im sure will echo what i say. our thoughts are with you at this sad time

[todd1970]

Sorry to hear about your sad loss Silky..respect and best wishes to you and your family at this difficult time.

[RB]

I wish to offer my most sincere condolences and sympathy regarding your most recent lose, and hope things become sorted quickly for those they leave behind.

[ady]

So sorry to read of your great loss silky.

May I also offer my sincere condolences to you and your family.

My thoughts are with you my friend.

[TheMachine]

I'm all so sorry to here about your lose mate time is a great healer like ady i would all so like to offer my sincere condolences to you and your family.

[CrAzYbAr]

So sorry to hear about your loss Silky...At least if its any consolation you can think that you did it for the best and that he went peacefully. If it's like in your stories you've told, he's had a good life, seems like a great guy
My sincerest condolences to you and your family

[Deano]

I were shocked to say the least,when opening my PM from you on New Years Day.As said before,I wish you and your family sincerest condolencies from the heart mate.

[lovespuds]

So sorry for your loss mate, Take Care

[curlywill]

so sorry to hear about your loss mate. going by what you said you made the right decision - so your dad did not suffer at least he went peacefully.

be strong mate.

[superbank]

Really sorry to hear that mate - my thoughts with you and your family.

[impact]

I am sorry of hearing of your loss silky.

[carlosgee]

sorry for your loss, i cannot begin to imagine how you feel at this time but my thoughts are with you and your family. Carl

[ForYouToEnvy]

Condolences to you and your family bud

[Daryl]

Hi everyone, not had the best of New Years, my dad was taken ill with a bad chest infection. He was put on a ventilator and was unconcious. after 5 days of pumpimg him with antibiotics his kidney's started to fail and he was also diagnosed with influenas A.

i talked it over with my mum and sister and decided it was best to let my dad go in peace and whilst he wasn't suffering.

so on 1st jan 09 my dad passed away.

still in a little shock but starting to get there with the funeral arrangements and sorting my mums finances out.

its been a shock to the system buty starting to get back to normal.

My Dad died on New Year's Eve 2001, and the following day, New Year's Day, would have been my Dad's 75th birthday. Although the circumstances are different (my Dad died of pneumonia and pneumonnocosis) I can truly sympathise with you and know how the dread of the start of the year must feel to you.

I know it isn't any consolation at present in your raw grief, but believe me, the pain will heal, you will start to celebrate New Year again (if you have a very loving family like I have, and like the sounds that you have) and you will smile again. The happy memories are only a thought away.

Chin-up mate from someone who knows what you are going through, and you of course have my deepest sympathies to both you and your family. God Bless.

[perfectalibi]

God bless you and your family mate at this ever so sad time. My heart is with you and am sitting here with tears in my eyes, just thinking of my ex mum-in-law and my nan, who also tragically passed away with similar health problems.
May I suggest you listen to Papa by N-Dubz. a beautiful song..........and the words.........wow.
I can guarantee you someone up there in the great blue yonder is looking after him and watching you and your family.
God bless again and R.I.P your Dad.
Mark xx

[silkyuk9]

thanks for all your replies. I appriciate all of them.

[xvxvx]

Yeah it is hard to lose a loved one as i myself have not to long ago lost my Father
Im very sorry for your loss my condolances ect ..