To be honest, that has nothing to do with it, Every one is entitled to an opinion, but being abusive is not really excusable, every one agrees to fruit-emu's t&c's when they join. It's basic respect to not flame.
If you noticed I didn't flame anyone on this thread but other members did...That's the point I was making, everyone has a different POV. True that the chap got a flaming but that's always going to happen with this kind of thread (not that that is right, just the way it is).