As regards to someone else buying the site or taking it over...
I was a moderator here when Alex brought out Fruit Emu and he did so because in all fairness, no one else wanted too and Fruit Emu, despite what some people think of it, contains the vast library that is needed for FME to survive.
Millions of downloads available (a few less now the older MFME emulators have gone) with not just catering for MFME, but the older emulators like BFMulator and JPeMu to name a few... plus a short-lived one named Amber if I believe correctly!
Anyway, as I say, no one else wanted Fruit Emu when Alan, the previous owner sold the site and for a while it looked like we might've closed completely... "oh why didn't it?" a few older members may have wished, but I ask you this, in all seriousness and honesty, could any other site have supported FME in general more than Fruit Emu has these last 14 years?
I know the answer to that is definitely NO... and in their hearts, the people who hate Fruit Emu (but do still come here) know that as well - FME and MFME couldn't have survived the 'wilderness' years without the site... and I for one was glad to be a part of keeping the site running through that time, for it to survive now as the biggest MFME outlet available.
So please hold off Alex whilst he goes through this difficult time - he needs and will get my entire support through his ongoing condition, as I hope he will from all other members too...
And, to be honest, there probably isn't anyone who would want to take over or afford to run Fruit Emu anyway...