charmer_filey

Hi everyone i would like to thank everyone here for the support you all gave me when i was having the troubles with my son and social services...

But i have more sad news a week ago i was diagnosed with lung cancer and sadly they have given me a few months to live so i would like to take this opportunity to wish you all a very merry xmas and every continued success with the site

best wishes
simon

hi gang hope everyone is well i am pleased to say i have fully recovered now after the traumatic experiences i have been through with my son and social services, i have also writtrn a book which i am sending off to local publishers, this book is an insight to my life experiences and traumas linked with adhd etc... i will let you know if this gets published i also now intend to lobby goverment into making changes the way that children and families with this disorder and others are treated as even now i am still recieving emails from people going through traumas like i did and this has to stop somewhere!
i would like to thank everyone here for their support and messages while i was going through what i would describe as hell
best wishes simon

Hi to everyone Sometime ago i posted a thread about A.D.H.D and had some fantastic feedback and appreciated the comments posted... sadly since my post me and my son have had to seperate as he continued to assault me and i also went went thru a year and a half of mental abuse aswell...

Within this period i obtained an admission of neglect on the part of social services in black and white !!!! a rare thing to get i might add

but even after that they still failed to offer any real help for me and my son sadly...
It is even harder now for him as he has turned 18yrs old now(mentally about a 12yr old)and so he has been passed onto adult services which is even worse than child services....

The last time i was assaulted my son strangled to the point where i was losing consiousness(excuse spelling) yet they still didn't see our case as a matter of urgency

I wonder if services will ever change for the better and maybe it's time huge amount of pressure was put on goverment to change this !!!

as its people getting paid £30,000 that are making these decisions and destroying families that were once very close...

I have heard so many people say how this generation is out of control,but what do you think the reasons are for this?

I am interested in hearing your views as i know where i come from there is no facilites about for the youth and the ones that are available cost more that people can afford as a huge percentage of families are on or below the poverty line....

what do you think can be done? and where does the responsibility lie?

i believe it is the responsability of everyone i.e. councils,local,businesses,parents etc to provide better facilities do you agree?

Is there anywhere i can find all the hidden cheats etc to the way fruities work? i found out a few days about 1 and won quite a bit off it
would appreciate any help